• I thought I had read this book before when I took it out, but there was no history on it. Upon closer investigation, this appears to be a part 2 to his previous book: Hooked. And it is weird.

    This book largely focuses on different strategies to take back your time and how to not be so distracted by the world around you. And if you are reading it for that purpose, it is awful. The useful stuff appears on just about every productivity tips list, and there is a complete lack of nuance or acceptance that different people have different lives and needs. The work section in particular really requires that you have control over your own schedule, and he advocates for making your friends and family feel bad for looking at their phones.

    But as a sequel to Hooked, it is fascinating. He previously wrote a book about how to use psychology to make addictive products, and in this one he’s putting the onus on the user to not fall for the things he pushed for in the previous one. The first one was from the perspective of the product, this one from the user, and he never puts together that he is remotely responsible for creating the problem in the first place.

    And that’s really a larger tech and design issue that I am not getting into right now.

    Overall, if you are looking for ways to become better at controlling your own attention, not this one. But if you read Hooked and you want to watch the author completely avoid any accountability in creating a world where technology is specifically designed to be addictive and blame the user for allowing themselves to become addicted to technology and the world at large around them, including I think using several of the same studies from the first book reframed as a bad thing, it’s actually pretty interesting.


  • I’ve been actively working on figuring out how to make my life into a more ideal version of itself for a while now. I’ve read just a ton of books about improving my life and habits and generally how to get myself together. I’ve put together whole work plans to make myself recover when I got sick. And throughout it all, I’ve been adjusting this system.

    But it’s coming to the end of the year and it feels like a good time to think a little about the process so far and what I’m finding.

    I’m more aware of what I’m doing in general

    This has a lot to do with the fact that I’m sitting down and very intentionally tracking everything right now as a result of the health issues, yes, but I had started moving towards this before. I have a better idea of what my priorities are, how often I switch between them, and how long they maintain my interest before they slip away. In the new year, I’ll be continuing this to get a better understanding of how to structure things, break them down, and create points where I can leave things for a while to let my creativity wander.

    I am starting to really think about what I want

    I have never been good at self reflection. I don’t think a lot about the things I want from that emotional or self reflective place. With everything that’s happened this past year, I have gotten a lot more insight into, if nothing else, the things that I really don’t enjoy, which has led me to try and think more about what I would like to do instead. And from that angle, I’m getting a better sense of what I want out of life.

    My life does feel a lot more together

    You guys, I have been an absolute chaos monster in the past. I hop between strategies to organize things, abandoning each over and over again in favour of something new and shiny that will be the actual cure for everything. But I finally feel like I’ve started from the right place and I’m putting in systems that are intended to be abandoned for a while or changed and focusing a lot more on the things that I’m realizing matter more.

    Seeing progress is fantastic

    Did I know before that I loved seeing the numbers change and watching myself get closer to my goals? Of course! But did I ever realize just how much seeing the changes happening would actually help with my motivation? I feel like I should have realized that this was going to happen like this.

    I don’t feel as bad about not hitting my goals as I thought

    There are a lot of things that had to be put aside this year that I’m not happy about, sure, but I’ve also made so much progress in other areas that I’m not as upset about the fact that I’ve had to let a lot of things go. There were some things I just lost interest in, some things that came up that I wanted to do instead, and a lot of things outside of my control that happened. And overall, I think I’m still doing pretty well for myself.

    Now to figure out how to made adjustments for next year!


  • Am I having some bad brain times that have made me unable to really read anything fiction, so I’m going to be on a bit of a nonfiction kick for a while? Yep! You have been warned. But this one isn’t self help or about how to better yourself this time! This one is about personal tracking. Which… well, very relevant given all the brain stuff for the moment.

    The book explores the people who track their lives digitally and how that impacts both themselves and the world around them. There’s the more traditional things you might expect, like using that data to better optimize your day and otherwise use it for the purpose of improving their lives in some way. But there’s also the lesser talked about portions about people who share this information and develop an audience that are interested in the data they can get about others mundanely shared online, from comparing steps with peers to social media posts documenting the food you eat.

    Below all of those levels, I really liked the reflection that a lot of this data collected is not matched with the level of reflection about the meaning of it. It’s definitely something I have seen in previous attempts to otherwise optimize various aspects via data tracking. Also interesting is the more positive social aspects of data sharing, such as being able to more accurately put together the day a pipe bomb went off in Oregon. We hear plenty about the negative aspects of data tracking and putting your information out there, so it’s refreshing to see something positive come of it.

    Overall, I thought it was a really interesting read! I liked the discussions around the reasons behind tracking, where there were opportunities, and where it was maybe not accomplishing what people really intended.


  • If you’re looking for a way to add a little extra flavour or realism to your fictional universe, you may be tempted to use the current holiday season as inspiration. And you should! Adding holidays is a great way to make your world feel more well rounded and is an interesting way to provide insight into the way the world works.

    But what are some ways that you can create a holiday that don’t feel like you’re just copying real world holidays? Here are a few things to consider!

    When is there an influx of food?

    A very common reason to celebrate is food! Think about how food plays a role in the celebrations we have in this world, and how that might translate to the world you have created. There is a long history of harvest festivals, or even just holidays that are based on creating tons and tons of food to bring people together to eat.

    In these cases, consider what kind of food would be available that is worth celebrating! These kinds of holidays are often seasonal and dependent on the earth operating in a fairly regular manner, so there’s a lot of opportunity to use this kind of holiday as a means of expositing things like how the environment functions and if there’s been any large changes from one year to the next that are unusual.

    Environmental events

    The longest and shortest days of the year are used here to determine the changing of the seasons. Full moons and solar eclipses and first snowfall have also been causes for celebration, though they are not as regular. Does your world have any traditions around these smaller events?

    Alternately, was there a large scale environmental event that caused a great change that the people in your world want to remember? Traditions could be formed around the idea that it might happen again, or just to remember the last time.

    Ruling powers changing

    In terms of a monarchy, the changing of power can be a big deal to the people under that rule. The death of a beloved or hated monarch might kick off a celebration of some sort, or even the crowning of the next in line.

    For a democratic society, there might be traditions around the day in which the people come together to decide on their new ruler. A day off of work for people to come together, or something that the people can witness as those in the running for power compete to take the rule.

    Cultural or religious reasons

    If your world has something unique about their culture or religions, are there any holy days or generally sacred practices that occur on a larger scale? Is there a public version of those traditions for those who may not be part of that culture or religion to also participate? Christmas is a holiday celebrated by people often regardless of religious affiliation, so does your world have something like that as well?

    A combination of these things!

    Sometimes these ideas can intersect! A full moon may be the day that the new ruler is crowned, or the harvest festival coincides with a large religious holiday. Look at ways that these things can intersect and see the opportunities that you can craft to use it to help with adding a little more flavour and interest into your worldbuilding.

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    Have you created any holidays for your fictional universes?


  • Today in taking out random books from the library, a book about Cirque! I have never been myself, but have always wanted to go. There’s a tent that I can see from the train when they come into town, but I haven’t been yet. So obviously I had to check out a book about it, even if it looks oddly like a business book.

    It’s not a business book, though, not really. It’s a motivational book about how to improve your life, but told through the framing device of a sports talent rep discovering the world of Cirque and having the people who work behind the scenes give him life advice via telling him about the intricacies about their job and how inspired they are by it.

    It’s clearly fictionalized if not entirely fictional. There is no way that everyone in Cirque speaks in quotables, I am sorry. But I did find it to be a very effective and entertaining way of getting the message across of finding your passion and understanding that the risks are worth the rewards of happiness in the end. It is a little heavy handed at times, but I still enjoyed it.

    If you’re looking for something a little different in the motivational self help genre, this one is certainly an interesting read. It’s also a very quick read, and you’ll be able to get through it without much trouble.


  • I may not be able to make my brain write fiction lately, but I’ve been keeping busy with a whole bunch of other creative adventures in the meantime!

    We have jewelry!

    We have Remy’s face on stuff!

    We have a super secret thing that only the newsletter is hearing about!

    And I have a quick update! I’m going to hold off on releasing any new stuff until January, so please stay tuned and I’ll let you know when there’s more! Yes, I know Christmas is just around the corner and I should be doing more but I am trying to rest for the year, so look forward to new releases come January.


  • Do I want to try and make my art into a business? Yes. Do I want to do what I’m required to do in terms of marketing and getting an audience to do it? Do I want to create a solid brand presence, niche down, get rid of half the stuff I’m doing so I can be consistent, build a loyal following off of that, and then diversify back out later? Nope! But I will read a business book or two in order to feel like I’m actively doing something to help my cause!

    This book is very much what I expect a girl boss business book to be. It feels 85% empty platitudes about how you can do anything, you’re awesome and amazing! There’s about 5% advice that is presented with the same kind of framing, with “Put it out into the universe” language without pointing out that getting your idea written down in a way where you can look at it and revise it is actually a good and practical thing. And then there’s about 10% actual business advice that I’m pretty familiar with in terms of how to find your target audience and be a brand.

    Also, there were pitches for her course throughout it and I am not a fan of that inside my library books. Make me look you up, don’t try to grab my email address in exchange for information you keep alluding to and never getting to.

    I like a lot of very concrete and practical advice, so this was very much not the kind of book I think I was ever going to be compatible with. The little bit of useful information that’s in there is pretty widely available elsewhere, but if you need a bit of that emotional support in your entrepreneurship journey, maybe it will work better for you.


  • Like most authors with a newsletter, you want more information about the people reading your books and check your newsletters out. You want to know about what other books they like so you know how to position your own books in the market, or you want more information about the demographics to know if that young adult novel is being read by young adults!

    Or, you know, if they’re actually reading your books at all.

    Here are some other questions you can ask that will help you get answers to your questions that people might actually answer without feeling like you’re being overly invasive. And also get some great recommendations from your audience in the process!

    Question: Have you actually read any of my books?

    • Which is your favourite book of mine?
    • How do you feel about [Plot point from the 1/3 point of your book]?
    • Which character do you want to see more of?
    • Tell me what you think happened after the end of [Book title]!

    Question: What some comparative titles or authors to me or my books?

    • What’s your favourite book?
    • Recommend me an author!
    • Recommend me a book!
    • Recommend me a movie or TV show!

    Question: General demographic information such as age, location, etc.

    • What was your favourite book growing up?
    • What shows did you love growing up?
    • When is your favourite time to read?
    • Where is your favourite reading spot?

    Question: How should I position or market my book?

    • What’s your go to social media platform?
    • How do you find new books?
    • On a scale from 1 – 10, how much do you hate spoilers?
    • What kind of behind the scenes content do you love seeing?

    Question: What do you want of my books?

    • Do you prefer paperback or ebook? (Or whatever you have available, such as audiobook)
    • What are your favourite tropes?
    • What disappointed you about the last book you read?
    • What was the best thing about the last book you read?
    • What makes you put a book down?

  • I’m starting to realize one of the problems with posting these reviews once a week and post dating them to the next Friday is that it’s tricky to tell where my brain is in the healing process. It is not far enough, which is important to know for me talking about this book.

    This book is a series of essays, which I have only just learned is written works on a topic and not arguments written in a very specific, teacher-approved format. The topics were variable, all of them coming back to horror, and I know that I enjoyed the experience of reading it! But there was one main problem.

    I don’t remember a single thing that I read.

    This is not a reflection on the book, but how I’ve been during recovery. Because each of these essays was focused on only a couple ideas, my brain just wasn’t able to hold onto one when I started the next. It was a fascinating experience, and one that I will hopefully never experience again.

    But I do know that I enjoyed what I read, which is something! And if you were thinking about checking it out, do it! And then tell me what I read.


  • As I healed from my brain issues (Still going through it, it’s a slow process) I started looking at what I had of my plans and processes that I’d developed so far. For me, I know it’s good to check in now and then to see what worked, what didn’t, and make changes as necessary. Since I hit the point where I returned to work at the and of September, I took some time to look at what I was doing so far and start to think about how it’s been going so far.

    Does this work for me?

    Step one, of course, was going through what I had done already and determine the things that were good, bad, and maybe needed a revision. So let’s go through some of the ideas that I had put forth and figure out if they worked for me.

    Hypotheses

    These really did not work at all. The idea I had was that these would focus me on what I needed to do to make improvements, but I did not end up looking at them at all. Many of them were also just not good. They were things I already knew would help, so they weren’t so much hypotheses as statements.

    Metrics

    These kind of worked. Some metrics were definitely better than others, but having a single place for all metrics was not a good idea. Things like my budget tracking, for instance, were just for my finances for the whole month and did not account for things like when my computer died or the levy for my building. This made the numbers look like I was over spending when I was actually just hit with unexpected expenses.

    The idea of tracking numbers and measurable progress is good, but the details and methodology is not something I think works just yet.

    Projects

    Projects are absolutely something that work for me! I like having something firm that I can do with an end date and something measurable that comes out of them. The brain tracking for recovery was a great exercise in this and I definitely saw a lot of great things come of it. On top of that, it was great to have all of my tasks organized as a project.

    Monthly wrap up routine

    I started doing things on a monthly basis almost without thinking about it. It’s a habit I picked up from bullet journaling and I really liked having a routine of at least being able to sit down once a month to see my progress and make new plans to continue the momentum, or to see where I completely forgot about things.

    What am I missing?

    In doing all of this, I naturally found that I was missing something in this system.

    Ongoing items

    There’s things like habits that I really don’t have a good method of tracking. I know that drinking 2L of water a day does good things, as does going outside for a little for a walk, but it’s not really a metric that I know how to track within the existing system.

    Check in routine

    A formalized check in routine is going to be essential for figuring out how to make this work longer term. I don’t think doing it at the end of projects is really solid enough of a timeline, and I think that doing these revisions on a monthly basis with the end of the month wrap up might be too frequent. So I need to figure out something to see what works.

    Next steps

    Of course, with all of these things, I am going to start looking into things to revise. My current plans are:

    1. Find some way to track ongoing habits within the system
    2. Revise the existing metrics to work better for nuance
      1. See if those metrics are being tracked in the right place, or if they are even the right numbers
    3. Remove the hypotheses
    4. Plan for a formal check in and revision process once every 4 months

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